SEX.

Well, after class today I met Ms. Z. It’s the first time we’ve met. In person that is. We’ve been chatting for quite some time now and thought we might as well as meet up. Its not exactly a blind date since we both know how the other looks like. (If that’s how you define blind that is).

Needless to say, it was refreshing. No romance though. I don’t think I can bring myself to love her. Actually, she probably thinks vice versa. Haha… some people just don’t cut it for me. It’s not that Z isn’t good enough or anything. She is, very much so. Pretty, slim, tan and pulls off the big earring look just great. Sorry, I’m a sucker for them big earrings. Z just lacks that cutting edge you know? Well, you all smile and nod but you don’t really know, do you?

She’s all about being a lady and demure. Definitely she’s bright, 1st year NUS student. I like that. Not the demure part, the intelligent part. Of course, being decorous and sedate is a good thing for ladies, but I would prefer someone louder, a little more strident. *Shrug* Taste changes I guess, I used to love the reserved kind.

The best part was when I sent her home. I always love sending a lady home. It’s the greatest portion of the night (if you can advantage of course) because it is the man’s chance to leave an impression. I don’t mean force your way into her house and screw her. Hell No! But it’s just nice to walk and walk and walk and walk and talk about life with your lady. I find that romantic. :) One day, if I date you, you will realize how important the walking home part is.

Naturally, the man will pay for everything. Chivalry isn’t dead by any means. I’ve always felt males who say that are just too darn lazy to put in the effort. Though of course, I reiterate that chivalry isn’t just about money. Neither is just being a gentleman and opening taxi doors etc. It’s all about being a package. The way you speak and walk is important too. Dressing too definitely. Don’t turn a lady off with a loud swagger and a tattered t-shirt with a ruckled collar. Also, don’t force the chick into a smooch at the end of the date. Most dates don’t end in kisses anyway. We aren’t in movies. Snap back to reality. Don’t attempt to hold hands and hug unless of course, she’s been fiddling with her keys for over an hour, then you might as well as screw her silly than. My way has always been to flirt quietly. You would have a good indication of how she feels about you anyway. Girls flirt much more obviously.

We had a great session of sex. Talking about it, I mean. What she said was sagacious. That Christianity teaches sex only after marriage for a reason. Not that it was just the right thing to do. More so, that it keeps you safe from AIDS, abortions and what not. You screw around and make babies, and that’s the end of the game. I never saw religion as something to protect one’s wellbeing. So for that, all credit must go to her. She’s a very level-headed person in that sense. What she says is backed up with evidence, unlike myself. My stand on sex is that it’s simply no sex before marriage. But deep down, I have doubts what makes a virgin. Uh… some other time I might share, but unlikely.

I’m a wild child. Or I used to be. I’ve been in situations where the chick is just baring her legs and moaning “fuck me”. But I thank God ceaselessly for the presence of mind to prevent me from falling into irreversible temptation in those situations. I’ve always abstained from casual sex. Regardless with girlfriend or not. I’ve maintained that I won’t have sex cos I love her. I don’t want to ruin her future. Reckon that’s a much stronger stand than “If you don’t have sex, you don’t love me”. That’s just bloody selfish. How chicks can fall for that, I don’t know. If you’re 45 and desperate, maybe than.

Z was very appreciative. I gave her gerbs and lilies. I think she was pleased. Chicks don’t get flowers everyday do they?

Say, there is a uni PROM coming in 2 months. I’m looking for a date. No one that I know please. I’ll be out to get someone who is a complete stranger. Hopefully I’ll make it. I’m a bit busy right now. Still, I got an email for someone yesterday. Yes a complete stranger. She’s asked me out for coffee… Sheeesh this is not what I expected. I’ve given her my MSN. Always exercise prudence before meeting anyone via the net. Not all guys hate sex/are innocent like yours truly *wink*