h-h-h-h-h-happening!!!

This is a somewhat massive update.

Not that I’ve suddenly become happening or anything, just that a lot has happened.

On Sunday, Lyn, Yvette, Janice, Jem and I went to the Commonwealth Games since Lyn had an extra ticket. I never expected to go actually, thought when the opportunity arrived, I found it irresistible. Somehow, none of us actually got off our ass cheering (except for maybe Lyn). Which is expected, since the Gold medal match was been Singapore and Singapore. It’s fantastic how a little red dot can be so dominant in any sport by sweeping the gold, silver and bronze medals. Though in the light of importing Cheena talent, it seems rather unspectacular after all. Anyway, Yvette got an autographed Singapore flag, courtesy of gold medalist Zhang Xueling, who beat Li Jia Wei.


THE TICKET!!! MELBOURNE 2006


Golden girl Zhang Xueling


Silver girl Li Jia Wei


Yvette's autograph

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I met Vicky along Lygon Street today. I have not seen her in say, 4 years. Her first question: “Ey, Jon, are you really really married? I heard a lot of people say that you’re married and that they’ve seen your wife”. Needless to say, this is the most absurd junk I’ve ever heard. Now I know why the girls have been staying away. There is NO missus Lai okay?! Affirmative. Now ladies, come to papa… :)

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Received a surprise email from Audrey asking how I’m settling down in Australia. I’m not exactly excited. In fact, I’d much rather she DIDN’T email me because now I have to think of a reply which is bothersome considering she’s such a fragile character. Ugh! Hate exes. Mega-yuck!!!

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Received yet another surprise email. Now, I’m pretty sure this isn’t spam because it comes with a specific email address and a real name. I’m just wondering how the hell she managed to get hold of my address. Hmmm…

Dear Jon,

I heard you’re a good guy and not too bad looking as well.

I'm 1.68m tall. My hair is well, it's like that! Haha. I mean, it's naturally sun-kissed, I don't do anything fancy with it and my body size?! Haha. Now that's funny. I'm slim. I eat alot and I'm still the same. That should say something yea? My clothing style... I like sexy (not hoochie or hooker like) yet casual stuff. I maybe brought up in a modern and liberal household but I am still deeply rooted in my Asian roots and my religious background which is Islam. Nonetheless, I'm not one of those extremists. I'm very much in the middle of everything. Balance is key for me and I think I'm looking for someone who shares my principles.

In terms of a relationship, it's nice to have someone to talk to at the end of the day. I need someone I can trust and someone who enjoys quiet moments as much as he likes going crazy. Like I've mentioned before, Reading is a huge part of me and it'd be nice to be able to discuss books with someone. I grew up with Soccer so yeahhh, 'nuff said.

I am doing this because my friends think that I've given up on the idea of falling in love. . Well, maybe I have or maybe I'm just tired of getting hurt. Haha. So here I am trying to prove them wrong and trying to give Fate a nudge. It's unconventional yes, but hey, let's just give it a try yea? I just completed Junior College and my A-Levels and I'm currently waiting to be enrolled into a university. Oh yeah, I'm working too. I enjoy reading, the current affairs, soccer, humanitarian/social work and shopping.

Anyway, this was my reply:

Dear R,

How did you manage to get my email address? In other words, who sabotaged me? :)

That aside, I’m truly flattered. Thank you for introducing yourself, you’re a charming character. In case you didn’t know, I am already attached. Besides, I’m currently pursuing my studies in Melbourne.

I’m sorry to hear that you’ve been hurt so many times. Though I gather you must be a strong girl to keep persevering. Don’t give up. Fate has an uncanny way of showing up at the most unexpected times. There are good men all over the place. The folly of youth is impulsiveness and an irrational mind. Count it as a learning curve and draw out the positives. Be patient. You’re still only 19.

Finally, life is beautiful. So smile and stop worrying about these things.

Cheers, Jon