okay this question is for the ladies.. though guys who think they're smart like me can also try to answer.
Qns: Today a girl told me she wouldn't go out with a guy who wasn't a virgin. ok scrap that, what i mean is that he hasn't gone out with any OTHER girl before. As in she is the 1st first one. The reason being that if she keeps herself for him, he should do the same.
Note: We're not talkin about sex here, but about previous relationships.
My Answer: To find somebody who hasn't been kissed or hugged before is DIFFICULT (unless you're a Pedophile). Imagine, optimistically speaking if 1 in 20 pple have been unattached before, the probability of getting a couple who have both not been in relationships is 1/20 x 1/20 which is 1 in 400 people. Sorry, even I don't know 400 people. In that case, I think its better to remain a virgin than talk to somebody with that sort of weird reasoning system.
i don't know, what do u think????
Another thing... I'm so stressed I can't talk to anyone right now. Feel like shouting aloud A WORD. I'm sure you all know what word that is :)
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go ahead and shout it out. its good for you. x) although im not supposed to encourage that, but what the heck. HAHA.
AAAAAAaaaaarrrrgghhhhhhhh!!!
I tricked you about the word didn't I? haha... i'm such a sneaky person =p
I knew a few friends who are each other's first gf/bf. Its really special if it happens to be so. Some of them didnt choose to not have a gf/bf 'til their 20's but some did. So I do salute those who do.
But you are right, it is hard to find ppl who have never had a relationship with the opposite sex before.
I suppose at the end of the day, if that person made a little pact with TheManAbove that they wont get into a relationship 'til whenever, God will honour that in His own way.And one of the ways could very well be bringing someone along their path who made a similar pact or were in a similar situation, dont you think?
Maybe that's the idealist in me speaking, but well..Id go out with a non-'virgin' if the situation arose! =) (which incidentally it did!)
Well I guess with dating trends changing over the years, it's really difficult, although not impossible to find a "first timer". Well be careful for what you wish for then...perhaps these "first timers" are 1.so nasty that people avoid them after a while 2. Really great people with potential but no one seems to notice. Lets hope its the latter =)
hmmm... i'd definitely try to go out with a virgin (sex-wise)who's nice and not nasty.
But still, gill, i agree with you. a lot of times there's always this divine intervention kind of thing. I guess i missed the boat then. :( oh well... we only have to trust and trust in God to provide.
to be honest, i don't know any couples who are 1st bf/gf. how strange! I've been thinking for such a long time and can't get any.. weird! Maybe you DO know 400 people (!!!!!!!!!!)
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